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Have a burning question about Sugar Daddy dating?

Welcome to the NEW “Ask Taylor” Podcast!

Have a Sugar Baby question? Get it answered. Not sure what to ask? You can ask me anything about the Sugar Baby lifestyle. No question is too big or too small. Ask Taylor is my brand new, upcoming DAILY podcast that features an actual question submitted from someone like you!

Why Ask Taylor?

Before the idea for Ask Taylor, I used to answer questions submitted from Sugar Baby’s and questions asked on the SugaInsider Sweet Talk Podcast, which isn’t going away. But, I felt like the questions asked on the podcast changed the feel of the episodes that were often about something else and questions were becoming repetitious.  So, I decided to dedicate an entire show to answering your questions instead! Each show is in a bite-sized 3-5 minute format, and it’s a more organized way to deliver even more value to you and the entire Sugar Daddy Formula audience.

How To Ask a Question

I want this show to be fun, personal, and extremely helpful! Please note that by submitting a voicemail question, you’re allowing me to share it publicly on the podcast. If your question is featured, you’ll get my virtual Sugar Baby Goody Bag. This is my way of thanking you for asking a great question and helping to deliver more value to the Sugar Daddy Formula audience.

When you ask your question, please keep your question under one minute in length. If it goes a little over, that’s fine, but please keep it concise and to the point. And you can start off by following this format: “Hi, Taylor. My name is Amber. My question is…” So, go ahead and submit a question by leaving a voicemail here or below.

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Questions Answered 676

  1. Maria

    Hi! I’m new to this Sugar Baby-thing, but I’m starting to get into it. I live in Scandinavia, and my POTS live far away, like USA or Singapore. One thing that concerns me most is, how will I handle an allowance? I mean, I can in no way accept cash from these POTS, different currency and other stuff. And I know if you get too much money very often it gets suspicious. Does PayPal work for this? What kind of personal information must I give out to a POT to assure that I get my well-deserved money? And how should I manage it?

    I really, really appreciate a response!!! Thank you!

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      Taylor Jones

      Do you have someone “wanting” to give you an allowance? If not, you will want to attract someone who will. After all, you don’t want to push the cart before the horse. Meaning, there are plenty of ways to send money all over the world and yes you can send someone money via PayPal but if you don’t have someone who is going to give than how are you going to manage something you don’t have. You can consult with your bank to advise you or find a financial advisor to help manage your money. Plus, it will be dependent upon the Sugar Daddy on how he wants to give too. If you are new to this lifestyle, you’ll want to start by understanding it. As, you will soon find out it is not as simple as wanting to be a Sugar Baby and your bank account will change as a result. You will want to ask yourself: Why would a SD in another country want to provide me with an allowance? And what will you have to do to get it. Perhaps, my SD Formula book can server as a guide and it’s available on Amazon.

  2. Linda

    I’ve met a sugar daddy at a night club; then after 3weeks he invited me to his place to chill and have some wine which was last night and now he wants me to go back tomorrow but obviously he wants to sleep with me…;what do you think? If no, then what excuse should I give please help me

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      Taylor Jones

      What makes him a Sugar Daddy in your book? He could be a prospect but what is he doing for you to give him that title? I don’t know the nature of your relationship but you just met from a club and it’s 3 weeks later. What is he looking for? How you are building your foundations to your relationships? Do you want to sleep with him? Do you want to go back to his place? Are you happy with what you are getting? Don’t leverage sex to get what you want. You don’t have to. If you are, than that is what it will be in which you will be having sex in hopes of getting something. And if you aren’t getting what you want than you will have to take a look at how you are approaching this entirely. There isn’t an excuse needed. If you don’t want to have sex. Don’t.

  3. Jenny

    There’s an extremely wealthy man that likes me. He said he will be there for me etc. I told him in a relationship and he said he doesn’t mind taking care of me. I want him to give me money! But I don’t want him to get attached or think that we could be together. I just want him to give me money and I do him favours and nothing more. How do I go about doing this.

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      Taylor Jones

      If he likes you. He likes you. And now you want to take advantage of the situation because he does. But yet you don’t want him to get attached. But the only way you will be able to get what you want out of him is to play with his emotions. There is no way around that. It’s either you manipulate him or you don’t. You’ll take as much as you can until he will not provide anymore, as your allure run it’s course over him. You have to be upfront with yourself. You can’t control another persons feelings because you don’t want to get emotionally attached yourself. But you will either dangle the carrot to get what you want by using how he feels towards you or you won’t. You can be direct with him and let him know how you feel and how you would like things to be and give him the option (people don’t go this route because we are all self-absorbed and care about our feelings and not that of the other person). But if you can convey the type of relationship you want and be truthful he can take it or leave it. And that is what you call being genuine and people respect that.

  4. New2this

    Hi,
    I am not a sugar baby although I always wanted to be one. Today I was leaving work and as I was walking down the street this guy smiled at me. I chose to smile back. Its the polite thing to do. He then proceeded to talk to me. So I have his number now. Being in the area that I live, it is probable that he is a sugar daddy. especially after, what he said to me and him asking me to please call him. I’m trying to get my mind wrapped around it. How do I go about it? When I do call him?

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      Taylor Jones

      Hi New Sugar, in order to get what you want you have to know what you want. And with that being said, what are your intentions? You have his number, so call him (you have to make a connection with him in some way). But if you are wanting to turn him into a possible Sugar Daddy than your tactics will need to be different and thus your approach would be as well. You wouldn’t want a lot of time to pass and when you do make the call he already forgot who you are. I teach women to become saleswomen in which you are. If you would like to learn my methods I have books avail (my main book SD Formula can be found off Amazon and it can serve as your guide), but if you want me to teach you I recommend setting up a consult to to understand how you are planning on going down this path to set yourself up for getting what you want based on what you are intending to do.

  5. Dee

    Hello Taylor,

    My name is Danielle and I’m 29 year old woman of color who’s down on her sugar bowl luck. I’ve had a 2 of them that gave me things but it was short term and didn’t turn out good. I saw you on this interview with lisa ling. That really touched me and you inspired me and I’m admired by you. I prefer a SD with NO kids, Never married, and has good knowledge and mentorship about the movie/sex industry. I want to not only enjoy the upgraded lifestyle that I want. I don’t want to be in the bowl to just to upgrade my lifestyle and to go on exclusive trips.

    I want a realistic companionship with someone who has more money than me. The issue is that I feel that I don’t fit in. I wear a size 16 and I’m 5’5. When I was at the sugar daddy summit at NYC (where I live right now) I kind of got discouraged and sometimes my confidence gets shaken. So what should I do? Speaking of pictures.. I feel that I take decent pics, I don’t know what should I do? Should I lay off the seeking arrangement site and start meeting people organically and freestyle?

    That’s why I wanted to ask where should I free style

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      Taylor Jones

      Hey Dee, if you are seeking a Sugar Daddy in which you want more of a realistic companionship. Well, what are you doing to “attract” him? The issue of you feeling as though you don’t fit in should be your strength. So, you are a size 16 and what about it? Are you happy with the size that you are? Are you loving you? Because if you are not loving you and you have an issue well there lies the problem. You can’t allow someone to shake your confidence because if you do you’ll live your life by living on the sidelines and watching others live theirs.

      So what should you do? You need to FOCUS and what it is that you are doing and how you are approaching this. We are marketing ourselves. Dating sites put us in reach and make it convenient, but that convenience comes with a price. We outnumber men on these dating sites and therefore it’s guaranteed that a SB will not make a match (the numbers don’t lie). You need to understand what happens and what take place on a dating site to increase your odds. You can use them effectively if you know how to market yourself on them. But you don’t want to put all your eggs in one basket.

      Free-styling (Networking) is a great addition. You will go where your target is. If you wanted to find someone who golfs. You would perhaps go to the golf range. You have to place yourself where your target is. So who are you targeting? Now, go where he is.

  6. City girl

    Hi Taylor,

    So I finally met a sugar daddy that’s right for me and can afford what I want plus more. I have him eating out of my palm, and we have great chemistry. He wants to continue seeing me potentially long term. My question is do I set my standards a bit higher if he is willing? How do I make him really invest in me

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      Taylor Jones

      If your SD can afford you plus more, what are you getting as a result? By setting your standards higher doesn’t equate to if he wants to provide you with what you want because you want it. Your connection is your leverage and how he feels about you, that will determine how much he will invest in you. But you can’t get what you want unless you are communicating what you want. That means you have to teach him how to treat you and ask for it. Now, how you go about asking will make the difference in him providing and actually getting it. But you say invest in you…I’m not sure what you mean by that. If you have him eating out the palm of your hand ,is he not investing in you?

  7. Lori

    I have been seeing a SugarDaddy who is married for about 2 months now. It has been going great and he tells me all the time that I am the best thing that ever happened to him. He has also told me that I am everything he’s ever wanted, I know exactly how to accommodate his needs and I know how to satisfy him better than he has ever been satisfied in this life. The problem is that I happen to get on the website that we met on and I noticed that he is online right now. How do I confront him about this? I’m just really shocked that he is on there right now and I also want to know if he is looking for someone else. But I need to know how to approach him about this without bringing drama into this to where I will lose him

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      Taylor Jones

      How can you be upset when you are doing the same thing? How can you approach him with the issue that you have but yet you are on the site too? Why were you on? Were you on to hide/delete your profile? Were you on seeking another Sugar Daddy in addition to the one you have? But if you are removing your profile because you want to than do that, and tell him what you did and see how he responds. Ask him if he is wanting to see other women as well as you. Don’t think for a second he is wondering about you as you are about him.

      Now, let’s not sugarcoat this here. Don’t get confused with your place. He is married. You are the “other” woman. Reread that. Don’t get upset when he has other women. Some married men have several women. Some Sugar Daddies have several Sugar Babies. What he isn’t getting from home, you fulfill a certain need. And if another woman is there in the picture, she is fulfilling a need in which the wife, you, and whoever else is there isn’t doing.

      So, ask yourself: Are you happy with how he is treating you? Are you getting what you want? When dealing with the married man you know your place, after all, wifey didn’t have a say-so about you and yet your are there. The only difference with wifey…she has the ring, and the benefits of what comes with the ring. Outside of that ring…well, we are replaceable easily. How much is it worth it to you to bring this up? When you are the “other” woman just focus on what you are doing within that relationship so that another woman doesn’t come along and take your place.

  8. Surqa baby

    When is the riqht time to take trips with your sugar daddy ?
    I’m new to this.. Why do they say! “Don’t ever qet back on that site.” I usually do just to keep my options open! Is it wronq to ask for money up front? Cuz I did ! He seemed alriqht with it. But honestly I just wanna know if I should leave to Florida with this dude? Seems kind of ify and I won’t leave! I just don’t roll that way ! What should I tell him?

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      Taylor Jones

      The right time will always be when you “feel” as though you can trust him. If you aren’t ready to travel than have him come to you. Don’t mistake someone who says they will do something for you as being trustworthy. Your safety should always be your #1 concern. If you haven’t already grab a copy of my book to help with navigating this lifestyle. You wouldn’t jump in the water without knowing how to swim right? And you can have access to a foundation to help you navigate this lifestyle without going into it blindly. Here’s how to grab a copy by clicking here.

      In regards to asking for money up front. How would you feel if someone you didn’t know ask you for money? I am sure you would feel a certain way. And if you are not getting any success with that method you would want to try a different approach and that different approach can be found in my book. Because if you are not an escort than your tactics/methods will be different. Just because a SD is on a SD dating site doesn’t mean they will do anything for you.

  9. Isabella

    If my sugar daddy wants to send me something, do I give him my home address?

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      Taylor Jones

      Are you pretending to be someone else? Are you using a fake name etc? Are you being open with the SD? Are you wanting to have more of a emotional connection with your SD? How close do you want to be with your SD? Do you want him in your personal life? Are you hiding this lifestyle?

      From those questions above you should come to the conclusion if you want to give him your address. Or just invest in a p.o box. Because at the end of the day you will provide him with what will make you feel comfortable based on how you are navigating this lifestyle.

  10. Leah

    I recently entered in to a SD SB arrangement. We have been talking for a month now and he finally asked what my needs are. I told him financial. He wants a dollar amount. I told him that I would agree to two weekends a month. I feel like asking him for $500 a month is too much. Am I supposed to feel like that’s too much?

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      Taylor Jones

      If you are seeking some financial help, you’ll convey “what you feel like you are worth based on what you have to do to get it?” You see, I cultivate relationships with the person that I am interested in and who has more disposable income. I don’t leverage sex to get it. I am not trading my time to get what I want. I am cultivating a relationship in which the other person wants to. If you feel as though $500 is what you are seeking. Well, that is what it is and you would seek out a suitor who will provide that and it becomes a number game. $1.00 means different things to each of us. Someone might say, that’s to low, or it’s more than what I had. But at the end of the day “YOU” have to be okay with what you receive. It will only feel like its too much if you never had anyone ever provide that to you.

  11. Christina

    Hello I have two issues I would like your take on. I have a sugar daddy that used to be in the 2k a week rank. He got into a horrible car accident and after accident has been less generous and less frequent. He is a “strip club” sugar daddy (I do not go outside of club with any daddies) He still shows genuine interest, but the money is now satisfactory and I know it isn’t a financial issue. How can I get him back? Another daddy in the 3k-6k rank on a weekly to bi-weekly basis has become more attached to the other dancer. She hangs out with him outside of the club which is something I refuse to do. We still talk, but he is no where near as interested in me as he was. I am the better looking of the two girls. I am intelligent and have personality. What do I have to do to get him back? He was providing a lot of my income for close to a year.

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      Taylor Jones

      I would need to have a more in-depth discussion with you to come up with a viable approach. I am sure you may have heard the saying, “Something is worth what someone is willing to pay for.”

      Based on your connections with both parties what experiences are you creating?

      I don’t know how to say this nor do I want to sugarcoat it. If you are only a “one trick pony” and that definition is: someone or something that is skilled in only one area. How can you successfully sustain something for long-term? You can’t. Eventually your time will be up (in your case both of your two issues are started to wind down). You see the other dancer isn’t providing attention just in club but she is doing so outside the club (that would appear she can offer more than what you can). Sure, she might not look like you do and nor has the same personality as you. But she does have something. She has his attention. When you are ready to step up your game we should talk, and start with a consult. Because ultimately you would have to create more of an experience and be able to scale it. Even if you don’t go outside the club you will have to work on areas to increase your value proposition with someone to see you as worth it.

  12. Crystal

    Hi Taylor my name is Crystal and my question is if I have children and stretch marks can I still be a successful sugar baby? I am a little self conscious and shy. This is new for me but I am taking a chance because I would like to be happy.

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      Taylor Jones

      Hey Crystal, it isn’t whether I believe you can be a Sugar Baby. It’s whether YOU believe you can! A Sugar Daddy is still a man, and a Sugar Baby is still a woman. I help women market themselves to attract their Sugar Daddy and you don’t have to be a certain age, size, or shade to do so. Think about what it is that you are wanting to achieve and how you are going to go about it. My SD Formula Book can serve as your guide. Your success will be dependent upon what you are seeking and whether or not you get it as success is different for each Sugar Baby.