Four Secrets to Selling Yourself to Your Sugar Daddy

You have your profile up and getting responses to your personal ad and ready to start engaging with potential Sugar Daddies. But where do you begin? Or maybe your getting dates but you can’t seem to get another date. The truth is, it’s not enough to have good looks. You need to have your Sugar Baby Story to present to potential Sugar Daddies.

Here are Four Pitch Strategies I’ve Found Hit the Sweet Spot of Sugar Daddies.

1. Answer the question, “Why Should I date you?” A common mistake is to focus on what you seek to get out of the relationship. Expand your thinking! A key to capturing a Sugar Daddy’s interest is showing him why he should date you and how your Sugar Baby allure will meets his needs. His needs could be sexual, or he may need a mental escape from reality. If this is the case, you need to be a safe haven that understands his need to be a man.

2. Protect your Sugar Daddy’s privacy. When approaching potential Sugar Daddies, it’s important you have anticipated possible risks to the Sugar Daddy depending on his situation (for example, his social status, his marriage, or his work in a high profile occupations). This is why you need to understand that you must be discrete and understanding. One approach to quickly build trust up is to let your Sugar Daddy know that his discretion is equally important to you. This lets him know you are a person of substance too.

3. Don’t be egotistical. You know what I mean here: Sugar Daddies don’t like spending their time with women who only want to talk about themselves. Your Sugar Daddy wants to feel welcomed and loved. He can’t feel that way if you’re only concerned with what you have to say and what you look like.

4. Be prepared. You have managed to secure a date. Awesome! Now the real work begins. And you must be prepared for this date. You have done your homework by gathering up all your Sugar Baby information on your potential Sugar Daddy so you know what he is looking for and wanting. You want to position yourself as the one that can provide it.

Covering these four strategies puts you well ahead of the Sugar Baby curve!

Taylor Jones
Lifestyle Coach for Sugar Babies

I have a Passion for Human Behavior & Discovering the Nuances of Personalities Types & Influencing Sugar Daddy Behavior. The Sugar Daddy Formula will change everything you know about being a Sugar Baby. Sign-Up To the Formula Newsletter Tips to Increase Your Sugar Daddy Dating Success.

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  1. Sway Larkins

    Very helpful can’t wait to receive my emails from you guys.:-)

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      Taylor Jones

      We are looking forward to assisting you on your Sugar Baby Journey. After all, you shouldn’t navigate this lifestyle alone.

  2. Doña

    I really wish I had the 50$ to give my profile a makeover! I have changed my profile three times. Each time I tweaked my wording and picture selection, but still no good prospects. I have 189 views, but only 28 messages in my inbox. I am certain this means that there’s something on my profile which is pushing these guys away… But what?

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      Taylor Jones

      Quality is better than Quantity. Reread that. Out of the 28 messages that you received how many converted to email exchanges? How many converted to phone conversations? How many converted to dates? How many converted to 2nd dates? How many turned into a relationship? Not all Sugar Daddy dating sites are created equal. Are you on the right site targeting your ideal Sugar Daddy?

      Sugar Baby Profile Tip: Your profile is NOT about you. It’s NOT about what you hope to receive out of the Sugar Daddy. It’s not about you listing your wants and your dislikes. Your profile is ALL about attracting your prospect to respond and want to get to know you. Period. Write to attract your target.

      Investing in your profile is a significant investment but what is it really costing you if your profile isn’t converting? Here’s a workshop for you that will help you understand how to market yourself and attract your ideal Sugar Daddies by turning your profile into a Sugar Daddy Goldmine http://bit.ly/SugarBabyProfileWorkshop

    2. antionette

      I feel you this is happening to me and some of the message I’m getting are hate messages or a no thanks or no reply at all its frustrating and when I do talk to someone thinking ok I found one they turn out to be fake and just trying to get my info to take for me I feel like they should give us pointers on what to say and what not to say and how did you know I’d the person is fake or not like have it to wear you would have to show your ID to verify that it is the person or something

  3. barb

    I don’t know what to think I am starting to think that I am too fat and not well dressed enough and I cant help that too much being that I am poor and eat what I can afford and that I cant afford the gym and have muscle spasms I cant really afford nice things after I pay my bills so I am desperately seeking a starter daddy so that I can potentially get the money I need to look better and find better but ive realized they want the air headed kind of bimbo looking nice night club rocking females but can you blame them, I just want one daddy that can help me turn myself into who I used to be I am so tired of being like this. the reason I am not working at the time is due to a new address and some major ties not being in place.

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      Taylor Jones

      It starts with you. You don’t need a Sugar Daddy to lose weight. You workout. You can go outside and run/walk. You can do pushups, situps and get yourself working to a better health. It starts with you. That doesn’t cost anything. What it does cost is your motivation to want to get fit. What it coast is your dedication to strive to be fit. What it cost is your persistence to get to your ideal weight. So, you can’t afford those nice clothes that you want… Well, you can still look good with what you have. If you don’t have a lot of things to work with out of your wardrobe than go to a thrift store or plato’s closet. It’s not that you are desperately seeking a starter Sugar Daddy. You just need to focus on how you can change your situation. Otherwise your life will pass you by and allowing the excuses you tell yourself to dictate your future. Not all men want “air headed kind of bimbo’s” as you say. Sugar Daddies are still men. You can find the right approaches to attract your ideal. Not all Sugar Daddies are found in one spot. So, instead of focusing your attention on finding a Sugar Daddy work on finding a job. The worst thing to do is spend your time focusing on the wrong things and the only thing that you gained is time that you cannot get back.

  4. Becky

    I read your profile and I read your books etc and I feel like I am doing a lot of it. I rarely talk about what I want, I like to know what they want, I like to know if I can give them that and I want to make it more about them in their eyes. If they’re giving me ££££ then I want them to feel that I am being very attentive and interesting and flexible and reliable etc. I don’t have trouble getting dates…but in england the men who are looking for sd/sb think its sex for cash. They don’t feel its worth giving money if they are not getting it and yes that means I am failing and I am aware of this and I am aiming to continously improve. I make alot of effort to make it clear that I am looking to date, want to look forward to seeing someone, want to leave smiling and thinking about next time, creating a bond, creating friendship etc in my profile and in messages which creates positive responses and many say they love that about me and its different and refreshing….

    Ahhhh!!! I dont know what I’m doing wrong. I’ve been on sugar sites for three years, on and off. Maybe about 7 months in memberships and now is worse than ever and there are a lot more girls willing to give these guys everything for a little price tag and calling themselves sbs.
    Apparently I am one of few who isn’t like that…

    The only way I can think about helping myself is by not talking money and just dating for nothing in return until a bond is formed and they start to really like me and then talk support/gifts/ being helped out

    Ahhhhhh #sugarbabyfrustrations!!!!

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      Taylor Jones

      Why wouldn’t you want to talk about what you want or express you needs/wants? It’s vital, but of course how you approach “asking” for what you are looking for out of the relationship. There is something in how your approach that is culprit that is undermining your success.

      How you set the foundation of the relationship is what you will get out of it. A person has to “justify it mentally” why they are doing what they are doing for you. Why would they want to and for what? It’s the connection that you establish. Your connection is your value, and of course he has to be a higher caliber of man.

  5. Andrea D

    I’ve been looking for weeks for a sugar daddy on multiple websites and I can’t find one. I’ve got a great profile. I’m not skinny but I’m not 200lbs either. And yet I still get no response. I’ve sent messages to a few and they don’t write back. The ones that have sent me a message either flake out on me or try to get me to give them my bank info (even after telling them that I don’t have a bank) and can’t seem to take no for an answer. Help please!!

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      Taylor Jones

      I’m sorry to say it, but it might be time to break up with your profile.

      If you aren’t getting the “RESULTS” you are seeking. Why would you think you have a “great profile?” You might be emotionally attached to it because you wrote about yourself and see yourself in a different way. However, your profile is not about you. And if you aren’t getting the results you want than your profile has failed you.

  6. Shayla

    I have spotted a potential sugar daddy, however I don’t know to message him or how to put it. Whats the best way in your opinion on how to approach a sugar daddy via message.

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      Taylor Jones

      Be memorable, witty, and mysterious. You’ll want to guide him on the action you want him to take next. That’s it! Find something in his profile to make a connection (your ice-breaker).

  7. Simone B

    I am talking to a POT who seems really interested in me. But currently we are on different sides of the planet. We connected while I was in Europe, but due to his work we couldn’t meet up. We have been texting for a week now, but I don’t know what else to do to keep him interested until he arrives back in the states, which is a little over a week from now. Should I suggest FaceTiming or what?

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      Taylor Jones

      FaceTiming is an option. But I would create an experience in which I would guide that person on what I want them to do next. Sure keeping them interested and coming back is one-thing. The goal is getting what you want. And everything should align around that.

  8. Anne

    Hi I’m a new to the SD/SB world, I’ve been reading online and comments, but I haven’t found an answer that would fit my dilemma: all the messages I’ve received from sd profiles give me their numbers or email, is that how it is, ie, hey beautiful, I checked out your profile, would love to get to know you more, here’s my number…..let’s talk” and I’ve had 100 messages, and all of them descriptive than some but ends w/a number or email.

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      Taylor Jones

      Some men move fast and some don’t want to wait. And some men send out tons of messages (copy and paste to hundreds of women) to see who responds and play the numbers game. Some men are scammers too. It’s your job to weed them out. The question becomes, “How are you navigating this lifestyle? Do you have a screening process yourself?”

      If you don’t have a game plan…get one. After all, I wrote the SD Formula for you so that you don’t have to navigate this blindly or waste time. And if you don’t have a screening process…you should! Otherwise, you’ll end up wasting your time and responding to everyone who sends you a message in hopes of finding your Rich Man, and you’ll find a lot of people are not who they appear to be and may not be a good fit for you. You wouldn’t want to have 100 people with your phone number, right!?! I know I wouldn’t.

  9. Sandy

    Not trying to come off as vein, I am an extremely attractive woman. I have a well composed profile (in my opinion)
    My pictures are decent and 1 or 2 come from fb so guys who do their research can see I’m not a fake or spam.
    I am having a hard time with how to talk to SD’s.. I’m blunt and forward and show my interest in their needs… I need help talking to them.. I don’t know what it is..
    My previous arrangement was with a man who made it very mechanical.. he took pleasure in turning our discussing the exact details of our arrangement into a literal debate..
    After 2 years of trying to explain to him that he wasn’t haggling for the “cheapest deal” he could get from me.. that my time is valuable and if he wants me.. I’m not a discount item at the thrift mart.. I feel like I need to be “reset”.. .. can u point me in the right direction?

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      Taylor Jones

      From what I gather you are having a hard time conveying your worth and having someone see you as worth it. In order to get what you want you need the cooperation of the other person. Everything that we do is 100% marketing. If being blunts works, keep doing it. But if it’s not working you need a different approach. It has been from experience that you sell the other person on themselves as the one to provide whatever void they have/missing to in turn have them want to provide you with what you are seeking. Better methods = better results. If you would like to learn mine. Perhaps we should explore seeing if we would be an ideal fit to work on resetting your approach to a new one together.

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