Also you say it isn't your fault that she works the hours that she does but at the end of the day you are working unsociable hours as well which is resulting in you not seeing your daughter as well - it is therefore unfair for you to have her three our of four weekends every month. My mum & brother live 45Min'ss away and only get to see my daughter when i take her to them or they drive through, my exdoesn'tt take her through now &hasn'tt for months. I know things will probably get harder as ive saidshouldn'tt be paying for the mortgage anymore as im not living there but if shewasn'tt happy with that i would increase child maintenance or i can still pay my half n reduce my maintenance payments, butthat'ss getting off topic. Sign up to our DAD.info newsletter for the latest features, news and competitions. Grandparents have rights too! Have a communicate which includes your husband relating to the way you're able to desire to start disciplining her. be certain he's on board and then placed the plan in action. Do you agree that Thanksgiving should be renamed for President Trump? Any time that you can't have your daughter, she should be with her mother. A two-year-old’s constant battle for independence makes for a challenging phase of parenting, to say the least! So try to take a step back, recognize it, and give your little guy or gal jobs to do and let them handle some things without your help. Thread starter vipe155; Start date Jan 26, 2010; Status This thread has been Locked and is not open to further replies. If you were to go and get a contact order it would be for your daughter to come and spend time with you not your mum so in that respect I think she should only come and spend time at your mum's when you are there. enable her understand that as quickly as she is at your place you recommend corporation. Sometimes he stays for 4 nights in a row (if i go to a music festival) with no problems. Please Log in or Create an account to join the conversation. But your mother would have to pay for her court costs. Still have questions? You might only have to pay what the court deems as necessary. So is 2 nights a week for myself & my mam too much??? So that's nearly 6 years of every other weekend. However, you can also go through the courts and have it placed in the order. Do all children go through a rebellious phase? My ex said that i could have as much access as i wanted & she would drop her off etc, but already shes started being awkward, ive asked for my daughter to stay 2 nights a week with my mam & if im home then could it fall on the weekend, if im not home could my mam still have her 2 nights a week or 1 at the least as she loves hergranddaughterr to bits and my girl loves coming to grans. Its been quite raw since i found out with a lot of anger on both sides, now i have calmed down & just want to make sure my little girl gets everything she deserves. I work away monday to thursday evenings & am back at my mums for 3 weekends every month. My ex works long hours at her work (probably how this all came about), but when my ex is at work, her sister or mum look after our daughter as they live across the road. that's an somewhat mushy concern in view that she has a mom in her life already, yet she isn't too youthful for you to teach issues around. Join Yahoo Answers and get 100 points today. What do you think of the answers? To keep your child physically and mentally healthy, set limits on screen time. I have said that we need to compromise here as i feel if i were to ask for a contact order i would probably get my 2 nights a week access, but idon'tt want to do that as id like for us to stay civil for our daughters sake. What do you do if you find out your daughter's doing porn? Then again he has been doing this since he was 5 months old so it's just the norm to him. Maybe think about putting together a plan that increases as time goes on, so for example, start every other weekend Saturday lunch time through until Sunday lunch or tea time until the youngest is 2 years old then increase to Friday evening to Sunday evening at that point, this will show that you are thinking about your children and the adjustments they will have to make. It's wonderful that your mother loves her grandaughter but your wife already has time away from her daughter when she's with you (which is the right and legal thing to do of course).
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