5 Mistakes You Are Making with Your Profile (And How To Fix It)
You’ve been on a Sugar Daddy dating site for weeks now, but still no dates. Can’t figure out what you’re doing wrong? Don’t worry – I’m here to help.
Here are 5 mistakes you could be making with your profile, and how to fix it.
1. You don’t have a photo.
A lot of Sugars are still making this basic mistake, and it’s costing them.
So if your profile doesn’t have a picture, you’ve made yourself invisible.
And the men you message are likely to assume you’ve got something to hide when they can’t see your face.
Okay, you might be saying, “Taylor, I don’t want to show myself because of the nature of the site and I’m afraid someone might recognize me.”
Do I have to remind you that we outnumber men? And as a result it will take you a very long time to attract a SD without one.
You could take side pictures of yourself to give the idea of you. You could slightly blur out your face where it’s tastefully done, or where your hair is in your face. But even when you do ALL of that (because you don’t want to reveal yourself) you can still be invisible when other Sugars are showing their face.
Well, the Sugar who has a top-notch photo that shows herself will attract your ideal Sugar Daddy.
Think about it: We all are not wanting to spend a ton of time on a site. So we skim through the searches rather quickly. Would you stop on a profile with no photo or would you click on the profile with?
Just know that your pictures play a tremendous role!
2. You made it ALL about him and forget to talk about yourself.
You might be wanting to be EVERYTHNG he hopes you will be, but this approach can fall short. Because it will tell him almost nothing about you. Talk about you but incorporate him in there by gaining a sense of who you are by showing what it would be like to be with you.
Here’s an easy formula to follow for the “About me” section to help you along:
Section 1: Hook his attention and make him want to keep reading. You can tell a story or describe a vivid memory, anything that will elicit an emotional reaction or engage his imagination.
Section 2: Write about your hobbies, what you do for fun, etc… Remember, he’s picturing himself with you as he looks at your photos, he’s imagining what it would be like to be with you on many levels.
Section 3: Describe what you do for a living by alluding to it in a sexy way by describing it. You want him to gain a sense of who you are. h the finer things in life.
Section 4: Now’s the time to tell her what you’re looking for. You don’t want to be too specific. For instance, choose words like “active”, “enjoys”, and “laughs easily” over phrases like “must love…” or “has to be…”.
3. Your profile is just a list of adjectives
Set yourself apart from the competition by showing, not telling. Tell a story that shows how adventurous you are.Don’ say it, show it by describing a situation that shows you are.
If you’re fun-loving, caring etc. Tell a personal story that will grab his attention far better than a boring list of adjectives or activities.
LOTS of Sugars say they like to travel, shop, read, loves music, loves to dance, but you might be the only one who describes it like this:
“I’ve always had a passion for making things with my hands, and cooking allows me to do that. It’s more enjoyable when I can cook for another person. I really feel like I give a bit of myself. Maybe you’ll let me cook for you get and you’ll have a taste of me, but it’s my sweetness that you’ll desire of me.”
4. You don’t have a Call To Action
Borrow a trick from all those marketing geniuses – after you’ve described who you’re looking for, tell him what you want him to do next.
Example #1
“Sound like you? Send me a message, and let’s chat…”
Or:
Example #2
“What are you waiting for? Go ahead, give me a wink and I’ll take it from there…”
It’s simple, and it works.
