An Unexpected Turn: The Importance of Alternative Plans

Ever heard of the expression that you shouldn’t put all of your eggs into one basket?
Well, when it comes to Sugar Daddies, that expression certainly rings true. In fact, if you want to establish yourself as a successful Sugar Baby, you need to always be ready with alternative plans in case your Sugar Daddy fails to live up to his promises. After all, a Sugar Baby should always keep her best interests at heart – and that includes protecting herself from a Sugar Daddy who just doesn’t walk the talk.

So when it comes to your Sugar Daddy relationship, when should you make alternative plans?

  • Look for a Key Red Flag: If your Sugar Daddy refuses to talk about finances, then that’s a huge warning sign that he won’t live up to your expectations. A Sugar Daddy should always be willing to talk finances (not too early in the relationship, of course) – so if he seems reluctant to do so, start searching for another Sugar Daddy stat.
  • Stress Test Your Sugar Daddy: If you want to know when to be ready with alternative plans, give your Sugar Daddy a little stress test. Tell him that you have a bill coming up, and you’d like him to help you out. If he hems and haws about it, and appears stressed, make alternative plans with another Sugar Daddy who will fulfill his side of the bargain.
  • Take Early Corrective Action: Of course, some Sugar Daddies might just be new to the whole experience, and not know when to offer you financial assistance. If that’s the case, don’t be afraid to take early corrective action by gently reminding him about his duties to you. If he apologizes and delivers, you can leave your alternative plans on the backburner – for now.
    Sugar Babies are always ready with alternative plans – so don’t let yourself be caught off-guard by an ungenerous or unreliable Sugar Daddy!
    Have you ever had to put one of your Plan Bs into action? What happened that made you decide to set your alternative plan into motion?

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Taylor B. Jones

I’m a Sugar Baby strategist, profile writer and educator on all things Sugar Daddy dating - attracting him, asking for what you want (or more of it, until you’re building wealth and expanding opportunity).

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