How Contrast Helps You Get More Sugar Daddies

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Sugar Babies,

Prepare yourself for a challenge.

You have less than three seconds to entice a potential Sugar Daddy to read your personal ad. Your challenge: What do you do to grab that Sugar Daddies attention?

Sadly, most Sugar Babies will write a mediocre headline, pick an unflattering picture, and write an uninteresting personal ad that reflects what it is that they hope to get out of their potential Sugar Daddy. This is the bare minimum.

Others still will post a practically nude photo of themselves in a cheap ploy to get a Sugar Daddy’s attention. Then they’ll wonder what they did wrong when they keep ending up with low-life men who aren’t high-quality Sugar Daddies at all.

The bottom line is this: If you only focus on what it is that you are seeking to get out of the relationship, you lose out on the opportunity to attract a quality Sugar Daddy who is generous.

Let’s cut to the chase. What can you do to ensure you don’t miss out quality Sugar Daddies?

The Power of Contrast

Let’s say I give you a shopping list of ten items. Nine of the items are written in blue and one is written in green. I then ask you to memorize the list.

Which item do you think you’ll have the best chance of remembering? The green one, right?

Most people remember the green one because the unexpected contrast instantly calls their attention and leaves a lasting impression.

In Social Psychology, this is known as the Von Restorff Effect. And while it was discovered 77 years ago, the impact it has today is huge. It essentially means that the item that sticks out like a sore thumb is more likely to be remembered than any other item.

So Sugar Babies, if you “stick out like a sore thumb”, guess what? Yup, you guessed it – you’ll have tons of generous Sugar Daddies begging to meet with you.

Competition is fierce. There are a record number of Sugar Babies competing for the same Sugar Daddy attention. You must stand-out to be successful.

How Can You Use Contrast Right Now?

We have all seen on every Sugar Baby dating website, the girls out there who are posing in their sexiest outfits, in very posed and unnatural positions.

So if you want to create a contrast, try this one on for size: post a picture of you laughing. Or engaged in a hobby that you absolutely love.

You know what this communicates to Sugar Daddies? It communicates passion. Drive. Warmth. Genuine. Friendliness.

These are all qualities that will have Sugar Daddies tripping over themselves to share with you – and you’ll attract some of the most generous Sugar Daddies around!

Note: If you’re having problems figuring this stuff out, please feel free to leave a comment. I’ll gladly help you implement this on your profile or send me an email directly at [email protected].

Or, for regular advice delivered straight into your email inbox, subscribe to The Formula Newsletter. I’ll be giving you a lot more awesome tips like this in the near future!

When you write your next personal ad, follow these tips and let me know your results!

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Taylor B. Jones

I’m a Sugar Baby strategist, profile writer and educator on all things Sugar Daddy dating - attracting him, asking for what you want (or more of it, until you’re building wealth and expanding opportunity).

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