How to flip the switch and get what you want

“Why are you here?” “What are you looking for?” “What do you want?” “What do you want to provide?” “But what do you want? “I’m cool with whatever you want as long as you provide me with what I need.” “Help me by not having me say it, you should know!” Trying to set the foundation of a beneficial relationship …

Dissolve Sugar-Shaming for GOOD

Do not let them sugar-shame you! Money = Feelings. Why do we let our emotions get mixed up in money matters? As a woman who knows what she wants and that WANT is having someone financially provide you with moola. But why do we have such a hard time with it? I think it’s because we haven’t been taught that …

Desperate Tactics don’t get you what you want

Communicating our needs and wants within our special relationships is such an integral part of any lifestyle, but especially ours. What we are worth isn’t always exactly what someone wants to provide. Trying to find a happy balance within the relationship from the start has a variety of perspectives, not all of them logical. Your value to someone is $0, …