I often get asked how to…
…write a profile that GETS responses from ideal Sugar Daddy’s.
…craft messages kissed with seduction and move a Sugar Daddy to take action
…weed out the fakers and spammers and focus ONLY on those men who’ll generously provide.
So, how do you ensure that you stop chasing Sugar Daddy dating sites (that are getting you nowhere, by the way) and step-the-eff-up to becoming the Sugar Baby you KNOW you’re meant to be?
Because we both know you deserve more.
I want to show you an area you are LEAVING money on the table.
And you’ll realize it all lies in your logic and how you are approaching this lifestyle. As it has nothing to do with external circumstances.
Pay close attention, this can change your lifestyle.
My client Michelle reached out to me, frustrated because she has been on a Sugar Daddy dating site
for less than 6 months (mind you she is paying for the dating site).
She said to me: “I don’t know why I’m not getting any responses. I send out messages. People view it and that’s it. Is it because I’m a woman of color, or my age. But I know I have so much to offer.”
Then, over the course of our conversation and while she is telling me what she thinks her issue is, I told her why her lack of response wasn’t because of her way of thinking, and gave her an approach she could implement.
How did I know what to do? Because I had experienced it, too.
It was something very subtle and unconscious she was doing that was repelling Sugar Daddies and
leading to her frustration.
Isn’t it amazing that by changing how you APPROACH something–whether it’s your pictures, your words,
and how you interact –it changes how other people experience it?
I have come across thousands of profiles on Sugar Daddy dating websites that have ‘me-focused’ Sugar
Pitches.
“I want a Sugar Daddy who can splurge on me.”
“I want to be taken care of.”
“I need a Sugar Daddy who can pamper me and take me to exotic locations.”
“I want an allowance.”
“I want my tuition paid.”
“I want to take your money and put it towards my savings and investments.”
Well… I understand your wants and needs, but your prospective Sugar Daddy does not care about you
yet, right now he cares about seeing his needs met.
Take this even more mundane example:
Whenever I eat yogurt out of those little cups I feel like I had ⅛ of a snack.
But when I put that yogurt in a bowl, pile it up with some strawberries, bananas, chia seeds, drizzle
some honey over it, and eagerly mix it up, I feel like I’m eating a luxurious meal.
Afterwards, I feel 100x more satisfied than eating it out of that cup.
Same yogurt as before.
Or is it?
The truth is that actually, it’s not.
What makes you different from all those other Sugar Baby’s seeking the same Sugar Daddy you seek?
You are fun. But so are they.
You are beautiful. But so are they.
You are smart, funny, intelligent, sexy. But so are they.
When I change the yogurt’s environment (I love that this yogurt has now become a Sugar Baby), the
yogurt takes on a whole new meaning in my mind.
Because of that, my relationship to it changes. And in a weird way, the yogurt changes, too.
So, what does this mean for you?
The principle applied to this is called positioning. It’s your perception.
And how you present yourself makes an enormous difference. And I’m not talking about making sure your nails are done.
For example, take these 2 Sugar Babies who are on the same site.
Sugar Baby #1 profile:
I am super sweet and I have a very friendly and outgoing personality. I love to enjoy life and the finer
things it has to offer. You will be the center of my world every time we meet. I’m kind, loyal, and fun to
be around.
Sugar Baby #2 profile:
I’m just the girl you want by your side if you ever get sick. I’ll put on that sexy nurse outfit, make
homemade chicken soup, and lay your head on my pillows while binge watching your favorite movies
from the 80’s.
They both are fun, caring, and kind SBs.
One lists a bunch of adjectives telling someone she is all those things. The other one describes how she IS all those things.
IF a Sugar Daddy is just reading the profiles side-by-side, who do you think he would be interested in
getting to know better?
It’s not that Sugar Baby #1 isn’t a great catch. It may be that the prospective SD doesn’t see it (yet). Because he isn’t being SHOWN it.
It’s all about Perception, Communication, and what your prospective Sugar Daddy VALUES.
Better Methods = Better Results.
