How Being Independent Can Keep You Broke

How Being Independent Can Keep You Broke

“How can you earn interest if you never put in money to begin with?”

It’s like walking into the bank and saying, “I want my interest before I invest money into an account.

And there’s no difference when it comes to the relationships you seek and the lifestyle you want.

The reason you haven’t attracted your ideal relationships, the reason you haven’t gotten what you want has nothing to do with you.

If you show up for the life you have, you won’t get the life you want.

I’m sure you heard a version of this quote, “Dress for the job you want, NOT the job you have.”

That goes for your lifestyle & your relationships.

So how are you showing up to claim it??

Look at the relationships in your life.

Are they what you want?

All the strategic advice in the world won’t work if you don’t have the proper mindset piece in place.

Just wanting to have someone provide you with what you want without communicating it is an issue.

I had an interesting conversation on the Sugar Daddy Formula Facebook page from my post from a comment.

And I have the commenter joining me on this episode.

We are discussing how being fed that strong, independent woman bullsh*t is holding us back and what you can do about it to step into abundance.

So are you suffering from the Independent Syndrome?

Have you been sugar-shamed?

Tune in!

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Taylor B. Jones

I’m a Sugar Baby strategist, profile writer and educator on all things Sugar Daddy dating - attracting him, asking for what you want (or more of it, until you’re building wealth and expanding opportunity).

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