Question: “I tried to talk to other sugar babies regarding where I should go to meet sugar daddies and they basically didn’t want to tell. So I’m wondering, if all sugar babies are lying about having a sugar daddy and out for themselves?” Puzzled SB
“Aren’t women supposed to mistrust each other?”
That’s a common view. “They” say that women mistrust other woman because we’ve been raised to compete with each other for men. In that sense, “the other woman” is my natural enemy. Within this lifestyle it’s lonely, and it can seem as if you are going at this alone and navigating this lifestyle can be frustrating at times. But it is within the power of a network that we can change all that around.
I know what it’s like. I was clueless to this lifestyle. I didn’t know where to begin nor what I should be doing next. I didn’t know where to go to ask for help and I surely didn’t know which information I should trust. I didn’t how to ask for what I wanted, how to setup the foundation for my success, and I didn’t know how to take the financial generosity of my Sugar Daddy to get him to invest in me. I would have done anything to have someone experienced when I was getting started and be surrounded by others facing the same issues.
By being here; I am sure you feel the same way. This is one of the reasons I created the SD Formula and opened up the Sugar Baby Support Group for all because the power of a network is priceless.
So, where does one go to “meet Sugar Daddies”… to sum it up in a nutshell: You go where they are.
It is as simple as that.
Now how you get there is the question.
You will find a lot of the same advice: go to charities, volunteer, go to networking events, go to exclusive places, go to airline lounges like Delta Sky Club, high-end restaurants, AND Sugar Daddy dating sites etc.
But the truth is; ALL these places will NOT work for the average Sugar Baby. Why? Because she isn’t sophisticated or savvy enough to mix within that crowd. She doesn’t know the right people. She can’t afford to go to those places. She doesn’t know what to do on a dating site. (Just signing up to a site isn’t going to provide you with the Sugar Baby lifestyle you desire.)
What that means:
You become a better catch by perfecting who you are, You become savvy enough to know that the friends who you hang around matters to where you are trying to go, you have to evolve your social network because they can get you into those exclusive places. You become strategic at marketing yourself. You invest in yourself. It takes work, but a lot of people don’t tell you that. It’s a gradual process.
You could say luck and timing plays a part but the reality is that you have to be savvy enough to know how to network. With practice comes experience and that comes knowledge. Where you go depends on who you are wanting to attract and where you end up depends on how well you can play the part.
If you’re serious about this lifestyle and wanting to know how I can help you just- read the testimonial below. Then imagine what it would be like for YOU to have that kind of support… instead of doing things blindly, doing the wrong things, and/or procrastinating because you don’t know what to do next.
“Before we talked, I had my guard up because I didn’t know you. And the only reason I even gave you a chance was because you were referred to me. But I was still had my doubts. My initial expectation was that you were maybe just out to make money. After getting to know you, I understand that you don’t take on everyone unless you see something in them, & you believe they have a real chance of succeeding, and you know that the sugar baby is serious. Then you make a commitment to be serious right alongside them. That really impressed me and made me decide to work with you. I could tell during our first call that you were very sincere and honest.” Donna
If 1-on-1 Coaching sounds like something you’d be interested in, just email me at: firstname.lastname@example.org
And I’ll send you all the details. Naturally, I’m not able to help that many people with this…So if you’re interested, please email me NOW while you’re thinking about it. (Limited time only, first served basis.)
Dedicated to your Sugar Baby Success, Taylor